Gordon Livingston

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Speaker Profile: Gordon Livingston
An accomplished psychiatrist and writer is a source of wisdom about life, love, and family.
Travels From: Baltimore, MD
Areas of expertise: Relationships, Love, Family
Author of:
How to LoveHow to Love
Da Capo Lifelong Books
2009

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And Never Stop DancingAnd Never Stop Dancing
Da Capo Press
2006

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Too Soon Old, Too Late SmartToo Soon Old, Too Late Smart
Marlowe
2004

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Only SpringOnly Spring
Harper San Francisco
1995

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About the speaker:

Gordon Livingston was born in Memphis, Tennessee and raised in upstate New York. He attended the U.S. Military Academy and upon graduation as an infantry officer was trained as a parachutist and an Army Ranger. He served for two years in the 82nd Airborne Division before attending medical school at Johns Hopkins from which he graduated in 1967. He interned at Walter Reed General Hospital before volunteering for Vietnam where he served as the Regimental Surgeon for the 11th Armored Cavalry Regiment. He was awarded the Bronze Start for Valor. He trained in adult and child psychiatry at Johns Hopkins where he is now a part-time Assistant Professor. He is a parent twice bereaved and his first book, Only Spring, described the death from leukemia of his six year old son. He is the author of the recent bestseller, Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart, which is now in it's sixth printing. He has published in a variety of magazines and newspapers, including the Readers Digest, the San Francisco Examiner, the Washington Post, and the Baltimore Sun. He is the father of four grown children and lives with his wife Clare in Columbia, MD where he continues to practice psychiatry.

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Relationships in the 21st Century
  • The secret to a happy marriage is to marry the right person in the first place. How can we discern those qualities in our prospective partners that tell us whom to avoid and whom to cherish?

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The Essential Virtues
  • Each of us seeks certain traits in choosing our friends and lovers that make them good candidates for long-term relationships. What virtues do we seek in others (and try to develop in ourselves) in our elusive pursuit of happiness? The operative rule is "First deserve, then desire."

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Love and Listening
  • The most import organs of seduction are the ears and the first duty of love is to listen. How can we develop this essential skill and how can we judge whether our prospective partners have it? Hint: Narcissists are commonly deficient in this ability, though they may pretend otherwise.

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The Most Dangerous Food to Eat is a Wedding Cake
  • Marriage ruins a lot of good relationships. Look at the divorce rate and observe how many intact marriages are satisfying to both parties. How can one best participate in this failing yet essential institution?

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Happiness and the Art of Navigation
  • Our searches for happiness are heavily dependent on creating maps in our head that conform to the ground on which we live our lives. We commonly learn how to refine these maps by trial and error, but this is a painful way to learn and time is limited. Are there better ways to get more of what we want – pleasure – and less of what we fear – especially loneliness.

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Fear is the Prison of the Heart
  • In facing our lives, individually and as a nation, we must learn to cope with fear. Sometimes this presents in the form of anxiety. Frequently we must deal with our apprehensions about terrorism, natural catastrophe, and our own mortality. Only courage enables us to live with the struggles that each of us must face eventually. There is also plenty of evidence that we are afraid of the wrong things.

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